Cal Coast News and Dave Congalton Have Awful Views on Sexual Violence

UPDATE (April 7, 2022): Ben Di Gugliemo has removed his post from Quora.

“I was raped.”

This was a remark Cal Coast News co-founder Karen Velie screamed to my former employer in 2014 over the phone, which I overheard. I remember how strange it was for her to say that since she made this revelation immediately and randomly after falsely accusing me and my father of “hurting” her. Velie may have referred to a traumatic event that happened to her years before I criticized her reporting over — what else? — making lots of questionable allegations and claiming said allegations originated from anonymous sources. Or maybe she was invoking the “rape” allegation as a way to shock my employer into firing me over my criticism, which was ultimately unsuccessful. Either way, her allegation was shocking and it gave my employer and I pause.

It was a truly bizarre moment in time. As crazy as that experience was, I wasn’t going to speculate publicly on Velie’s rape allegation and spend any time showing deference to whoever was being accused. Context was lacking. There were no specifics. I knew absolutely nothing and was more than content to put that sensitive matter aside. Why? I couldn’t just say, “No, that’s bullshit,” because horrible things do happen to horrible people. Because…